Managing anger in marriage
You are the one that is responsible for your actions when anger creeps in.
Remember though, just because you get mad, this does not entitle you to treat others around you badly.
Even when you are mad, you CAN control your words and your actions!
Unless you have a medical condition that says you cannot control yourself, there is no reason that you cannot control your anger.
People that are always angry always use excuses for their actions.
There are some tips here that can help you to be a more peaceful person and to help you deal with your anger issues.